The correct winch mount for your 2002 Honda TRX 350 is Bulldog Winch Custom-Fit Mount # BDW15107. The first mount you mentioned was a fit but discontinued by Superwinch. The second was a fit for the Polaris brand frames and not a Honda frame but it too has been discontinued. Rest assured that many winch brands will work with this Bulldog custom winch mount that is a confirmed fit for your Honda TRX 350 frame.
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